It has been some time. Blogging seems less popular. Or maybe it's just me totally stop browsing others' blogs.
But it's not like I blog because others do so. SOmetimes it feels good posting your thoughts or ideas up here. SAme goes with facebook I guess. Nick brought up to me a question that day when we were chit chatting. I told him how other couples are so sweet on facebook they post nice nice thing on their status. And Nick was saying, why arh people want to post their status on facebook? Why wanna tell everyone arh?
I cannot answer. Sigh. Sweet mah? WHy sweet arh I also dunno.
Then people like Dick ah will sure say, "sai meng arhh", "getting skin cancer dee lar".
Hmm..but it is something to think about. Why do we post those sweet sweet stuff on facebook arh. I never know. I thought it is just, yea sweet. But then you know, it's stupid also sometimes, if I post stuff like that and he never reply, then I sad. arhh.. why posting then?
Neh neh just some random thoughts.
Thursday, June 17, 2010
Tuesday, October 20, 2009
To someone I miss a lot.
A post specially for my dearest cousin, sister, and friend.
You know who you are, I hope.
Saw your msg in facebook today, and I realise how much I miss you.
Went back to Malacca for the Mid-autumn festival, and I couldn't find you.
Another two of us were enjoying their time, as usual.
But I know how much they miss you too.
I remember how we walked around Duyung holding our lanterns during Mid-autumn festival every year.
We did the same this year, but it's without you.
I remember how we celebrated each of the uncle and auntie's wedding together, and put on makeups and nice dresses and then laugh at each other, and praising each other's dress, but I couldn't imagine how my wedding would be without you.
I couldn't imagine how your wedding would be without me, too.
I hope I can be there for you.
I hope we can enjoy all these important moments in our lives, together, holding our hands.
And sad moments too.
I have so much to tell you now.
So much that I couldn't possibly finish in a day or two.
So much that it takes a life time to finish it, with you and just you.
I want you to know that no matter what your choice will be, I believe in you, that you will know when is the right time to do the right thing.
And I am always waiting for you, for our paths to cross again.
From a cousin, sister, and friend who loves you always.
You know who you are, I hope.
Saw your msg in facebook today, and I realise how much I miss you.
Went back to Malacca for the Mid-autumn festival, and I couldn't find you.
Another two of us were enjoying their time, as usual.
But I know how much they miss you too.
I remember how we walked around Duyung holding our lanterns during Mid-autumn festival every year.
We did the same this year, but it's without you.
I remember how we celebrated each of the uncle and auntie's wedding together, and put on makeups and nice dresses and then laugh at each other, and praising each other's dress, but I couldn't imagine how my wedding would be without you.
I couldn't imagine how your wedding would be without me, too.
I hope I can be there for you.
I hope we can enjoy all these important moments in our lives, together, holding our hands.
And sad moments too.
I have so much to tell you now.
So much that I couldn't possibly finish in a day or two.
So much that it takes a life time to finish it, with you and just you.
I want you to know that no matter what your choice will be, I believe in you, that you will know when is the right time to do the right thing.
And I am always waiting for you, for our paths to cross again.
From a cousin, sister, and friend who loves you always.
Tuesday, October 13, 2009
Workout.
I wanna lose weight....
I want I want I waaaaaaaaaaaaannnnnnnnnnnnntttt to be slimmerrr...
I know Im not that FAAT lar but you see, Mommy says when shes at my age, she never reached this size before one lor..
Started going gym edi lar anyway.
Asked help from a few friends also, like on how I can really lose weight.
Met Woody today, then he came gym with me.
He's working for Herbaline or Herbalife or something like that lar, something related to health ar fitness all those things also one lar.
Woody says it's all a game on how much your intake is and how much your body is using.
Jason, he's a certified personal trainer. Today he told me something I really dunno before lor. Sounds so stupid in front of him. lol =p
V: I'm going back now, hungry after gym. haven't eat anything. (I had a class after gym)
J: Oh you must eat within half an hour after gym.
V: Wat? Whatt?? Within you mean? I thought after gym cannot straight away eat one ler, thought will gain weight.
J: Nonsense. If never eat only will gain weight.
OK.
Now I know.
Good job these two weeks Vivian! Don't stop! You can do it!
Oh something else I wanna say, to Dickson.
See arh this Dickson always say arh,
I like PIG lar,
I FAT lar,
I very very FAT larr..
When I tell Jason saying that I'm fat,
people say "nonsense" lerr
Ah Sau also say I not fat ok?? =p
Buahahahaha.
Stop saying all those negative things to me!
Say something which can make me motivated can anot?!!
Bad Dickson!
hehe
I want I want I waaaaaaaaaaaaannnnnnnnnnnnntttt to be slimmerrr...
I know Im not that FAAT lar but you see, Mommy says when shes at my age, she never reached this size before one lor..
Started going gym edi lar anyway.
Asked help from a few friends also, like on how I can really lose weight.
Met Woody today, then he came gym with me.
He's working for Herbaline or Herbalife or something like that lar, something related to health ar fitness all those things also one lar.
Woody says it's all a game on how much your intake is and how much your body is using.
Jason, he's a certified personal trainer. Today he told me something I really dunno before lor. Sounds so stupid in front of him. lol =p
V: I'm going back now, hungry after gym. haven't eat anything. (I had a class after gym)
J: Oh you must eat within half an hour after gym.
V: Wat? Whatt?? Within you mean? I thought after gym cannot straight away eat one ler, thought will gain weight.
J: Nonsense. If never eat only will gain weight.
OK.
Now I know.
Good job these two weeks Vivian! Don't stop! You can do it!
Oh something else I wanna say, to Dickson.
See arh this Dickson always say arh,
I like PIG lar,
I FAT lar,
I very very FAT larr..
When I tell Jason saying that I'm fat,
people say "nonsense" lerr
Ah Sau also say I not fat ok?? =p
Buahahahaha.
Stop saying all those negative things to me!
Say something which can make me motivated can anot?!!
Bad Dickson!
hehe
Wednesday, September 2, 2009
GAD
Generalized anxiety disorder.
“Normal” Worry:
Your worrying significantly disrupts your job, activities, or social life.
Your worrying is uncontrollable.
Your worries are extremely upsetting and stressful.
You worry about all sorts of things, and tend to expect the worst.
You’ve been worrying almost every day for at least six months.
Im in the middle ler..
never noticed it before.until when so many ppl is telling me that how come i so ganjiong all the time one.
sighh..
Diagnosing myself as "mild" GAD.
"mild" not as in not serious you know..very serious edii..its going "moderate" then soon become "severe"
Im dying!!
ganjiong over small small thing all the time. then cannot sleep, or wake up in the middle of the night.then stay awake until the alarm rings.
Went to Counseling class today. There was a question about focusing on the past, or present, or future. Mr. James was saying ppl who keep thinking about the past will feel depressed, and those who focus too much on the future will be anxious all the time.
Guess where I am. Past, present, or future?
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.
.
you were saying future?
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.
.
wrong lor..
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.
Im both the bad ones but not present.
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.
sigh...so true...Im so depressed and anxious!
“Normal” Worry:
Your worrying doesn’t get in the way of your daily activities and responsibilities.
You’re able to control your worrying.
Your worries, while unpleasant, don’t cause significant distress.
Your worries are limited to a specific, small number of realistic concerns.
Your bouts of worrying last for only a short time period.
Your worrying significantly disrupts your job, activities, or social life.
Your worrying is uncontrollable.
Your worries are extremely upsetting and stressful.
You worry about all sorts of things, and tend to expect the worst.
You’ve been worrying almost every day for at least six months.
Im in the middle ler..
never noticed it before.until when so many ppl is telling me that how come i so ganjiong all the time one.
sighh..
Diagnosing myself as "mild" GAD.
"mild" not as in not serious you know..very serious edii..its going "moderate" then soon become "severe"
Im dying!!
ganjiong over small small thing all the time. then cannot sleep, or wake up in the middle of the night.then stay awake until the alarm rings.
Went to Counseling class today. There was a question about focusing on the past, or present, or future. Mr. James was saying ppl who keep thinking about the past will feel depressed, and those who focus too much on the future will be anxious all the time.
Guess where I am. Past, present, or future?
.
.
.
.
.
.
you were saying future?
.
.
.
.
.
wrong lor..
.
.
.
.
.
Im both the bad ones but not present.
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.
.
.
.
sigh...so true...Im so depressed and anxious!
Friday, August 14, 2009
Call me Ms. Mia.
EEeee!!!...back in action.Hopefully.
Sigh Grace was saying, "I miss you lar.."
Bridget was yelling, "Where have you been?"
Shu yi was telling me, "Got gathering lar.."
Huiwen: "Busy lar.."
Not one time but many many many times lor...
I know I know!!! Sorryyy larrr...
I miss you guys too..erghh exams until 21st..plss plss wait for me!!!
And this blog also..arhh forgotten my password even..
Lots of things happened, unhappy ones. And Ms. Mia feels like blogging again! Anyway..Im feeling better. Back to sitting in front of the computer again, browsing through blogs.
Sigh Grace was saying, "I miss you lar.."
Bridget was yelling, "Where have you been?"
Shu yi was telling me, "Got gathering lar.."
Huiwen: "Busy lar.."
Not one time but many many many times lor...
I know I know!!! Sorryyy larrr...
I miss you guys too..erghh exams until 21st..plss plss wait for me!!!
And this blog also..arhh forgotten my password even..
Lots of things happened, unhappy ones. And Ms. Mia feels like blogging again! Anyway..Im feeling better. Back to sitting in front of the computer again, browsing through blogs.
Tuesday, April 28, 2009
Long one. Worth the time reading =)
OK. I don't usually read emails. but this was forwarded by CLARA CHUA SOKE LING, the big name there you know.. our peer counseling president wei. So I click it open and start reading.
Gosh. Then I was like. Hawwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwww.
I don't usually forward emails also. And so for this I decided to post it HERE!
.
.
.
.
.
One day, when I was a freshman in high school, I saw a kid from my class was walking home from school.
His name was Kyle.
It looked like he was carrying all of his books. I thought to myself, 'Why would anyone bring home all his books on a Friday? He must really be a nerd.'
I had quite a weekend planned (parties and a football game with my friends tomorrow afternoon), so I shrugged my shoulders and went on.
As I was walking, I saw a bunch of kids running towards him. They ran at him, knocking all his books out of his arms and tripping him so he landed in the dirt.
His glasses went flying, and I saw them land in the grass about ten feet from him...He looked up and I saw this terrible sadness in his eyes.
My heart went out to him. So, I jogged over to him as he crawled around looking for his glasses, and I saw a tear in his eye.
As I handed him his glasses, I said, 'Those guys are jerks.' They really should get lives.
'He looked at me and said, 'Hey thanks!'
There was a big smile on his face. It was one of those smiles that showed real gratitude.
I helped him pick up his books, and asked him where he lived. As it turned out, he lived near me, so I asked him why I had never seen him before..
He said he had gone to private school before now. I would have never hung out with a private school kid before.
We talked all the way home, and I carried some of his books. He turned out to be a pretty cool kid.
I asked him if he wanted to play a little football with my friends. He said yes.
We hung out all the weekend and the more I got to know Kyle, the more I liked him, and my friends thought the same of him.
Monday morning came, and there was Kyle with the huge stack of books again. I stopped him and said, 'Boy, you are gonna really build some serious muscles with this pile of books everyday!' He just laughed and handed me half the books.
Over the next four years, Kyle and I became best friends...
When we were seniors we began to think about college. Kyle decided on Georgetown and I was going to Duke.
I knew that we would always be friends, that the miles would never be a problem.
He was going to be a doctor and I was going for business on a football scholarship..
Kyle was valedictorian of our class. I teased him all the time about being a nerd.
He had to prepare a speech for graduation. I was so glad it wasn't me having to get up there and speak.
Graduation day, I saw Kyle. He looked great.
He was one of those guys who really found himself during high school.
He filled out and actually looked good in glasses.
He had more dates than I had and all the girls loved him.
Boy, sometimes I was jealous!
Today was one of those days.
I could see that he was nervous about his speech.
So, I smacked him at the back and said, 'Hey, big guy, you'll be great!'
He looked at me with one of those looks (the really greatful one) and smiled. 'Thanks,' he said.
As he started his speech, he cleared his throat, and began.
'Graduation is a time to thank those who helped you make it through those tough years.
Your teachers,
your parents,
your siblings,
maybe a coach...
but mostly your friends....
I am here to tell all of you that being a friend to someone is the best gift you can give them.
I am going to tell you a story.'
I just looked at my friend with disbelief as he told the first day we met.
He had planned to kill himself over the weekend.
He talked of how he had cleaned out his locker so his Mom wouldn't have to do it later and was carrying his stuff home.
He looked hard at me and gave me a little smile.
'Thankfully, I was saved.
My friend saved me from doing the unspeakable..'
I saw his Mom and dad looking at me and smiling that same grateful smile.
.
.
.
.
.
Have you heard 'Hawwwwwwwww...'?
Gosh. Then I was like. Hawwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwww.
I don't usually forward emails also. And so for this I decided to post it HERE!
.
.
.
.
.
One day, when I was a freshman in high school, I saw a kid from my class was walking home from school.
His name was Kyle.
It looked like he was carrying all of his books. I thought to myself, 'Why would anyone bring home all his books on a Friday? He must really be a nerd.'
I had quite a weekend planned (parties and a football game with my friends tomorrow afternoon), so I shrugged my shoulders and went on.
As I was walking, I saw a bunch of kids running towards him. They ran at him, knocking all his books out of his arms and tripping him so he landed in the dirt.
His glasses went flying, and I saw them land in the grass about ten feet from him...He looked up and I saw this terrible sadness in his eyes.
My heart went out to him. So, I jogged over to him as he crawled around looking for his glasses, and I saw a tear in his eye.
As I handed him his glasses, I said, 'Those guys are jerks.' They really should get lives.
'He looked at me and said, 'Hey thanks!'
There was a big smile on his face. It was one of those smiles that showed real gratitude.
I helped him pick up his books, and asked him where he lived. As it turned out, he lived near me, so I asked him why I had never seen him before..
He said he had gone to private school before now. I would have never hung out with a private school kid before.
We talked all the way home, and I carried some of his books. He turned out to be a pretty cool kid.
I asked him if he wanted to play a little football with my friends. He said yes.
We hung out all the weekend and the more I got to know Kyle, the more I liked him, and my friends thought the same of him.
Monday morning came, and there was Kyle with the huge stack of books again. I stopped him and said, 'Boy, you are gonna really build some serious muscles with this pile of books everyday!' He just laughed and handed me half the books.
Over the next four years, Kyle and I became best friends...
When we were seniors we began to think about college. Kyle decided on Georgetown and I was going to Duke.
I knew that we would always be friends, that the miles would never be a problem.
He was going to be a doctor and I was going for business on a football scholarship..
Kyle was valedictorian of our class. I teased him all the time about being a nerd.
He had to prepare a speech for graduation. I was so glad it wasn't me having to get up there and speak.
Graduation day, I saw Kyle. He looked great.
He was one of those guys who really found himself during high school.
He filled out and actually looked good in glasses.
He had more dates than I had and all the girls loved him.
Boy, sometimes I was jealous!
Today was one of those days.
I could see that he was nervous about his speech.
So, I smacked him at the back and said, 'Hey, big guy, you'll be great!'
He looked at me with one of those looks (the really greatful one) and smiled. 'Thanks,' he said.
As he started his speech, he cleared his throat, and began.
'Graduation is a time to thank those who helped you make it through those tough years.
Your teachers,
your parents,
your siblings,
maybe a coach...
but mostly your friends....
I am here to tell all of you that being a friend to someone is the best gift you can give them.
I am going to tell you a story.'
I just looked at my friend with disbelief as he told the first day we met.
He had planned to kill himself over the weekend.
He talked of how he had cleaned out his locker so his Mom wouldn't have to do it later and was carrying his stuff home.
He looked hard at me and gave me a little smile.
'Thankfully, I was saved.
My friend saved me from doing the unspeakable..'
I saw his Mom and dad looking at me and smiling that same grateful smile.
.
.
.
.
.
Have you heard 'Hawwwwwwwww...'?
Thursday, March 19, 2009
One of my research report.
What keeps me motivated is this.
......
Findings
Article 1
What Women Like In A Man Are These 5 Traits
By Alex
September 25, 2008
This article basically talks about how men and women are different and how can men understand women better. The 5 traits that women want, according to this article, are confidence, honesty, integrity, good sense of humor, and an ease with sexuality.
http://www.selfgrowth.com/articles/What_Women_Like_In_A_Man_Are_These_5_Traits.html
Article 2
Life Plan for Love: What Men Want in a Woman
By Katherin Scott
January 17, 2009
This articles gives 13 traits of women that attracts men who are ready to settle down. The traits are: beauty, sexiness, respect, encouragement, fidelity, open and honest communication, strength and confidence, goodness, sense of humor, space, challenge, and love.
http://www.selfgrowth.com/articles/Life_Plan_for_Love_What_Men_Want_in_a_Woman.html
Article 3
Life Plan for Love: The Art of Flirting.
By Katherin Scott
January 2, 2009
Katherin talks about how the art of flirting is to make someone else feel attractive, in a tasteful, understated way. She mentions not to be too obvious in doing this. 10 elements for the art of flirting are provided in this article, eye contact, smile, touch, move your body, talk, laugh, be funny, compliment, be nice, and practice.
http://www.selfgrowth.com/articles/Life_Plan_for_Love_The_Art_of_Flirting.html
Article 4
How to Get Her to Like You- 8 Hot Tips to Attract Women
By Gisele Jones
February 26, 2009
This article provides 8 tips for men to get instant attraction from any woman. The 8 tips are: don’t show a lot of interest, show confidence, don’t be arrogant, listen, use eye contact, use humor to seduce her, look good, and be a good communicator.
http://ezinearticles.com/?How-to-Get-Her-to-Like-You----8-Hot-Tips-to-Attract-Women&id=2040557
Article 5
10 Personality Traits Men Find Attractive In Women
By Heather Lee
March 2, 2008
This article mentions 10 traits that men find irresistible in women. The 10 traits are: understanding, a good sense of humor, directness, confidence, dedication, flexibility, caring, warmth, intelligence, and honesty.
http://ezinearticles.com/?10-Personality-Traits-Men-Find-Attractive-In-Women&id=1020877
Article 6
......
This is one of my research. I did content analysis on "How attraction works."
Gosh it's soo interesting.
I'm glad some of the work are this exciting.
P/s: don't follow blindly from what you read here. Go to the websites if you are interested. Don't blame me for not clearly justifying the tips, a lot of isi tersirat inside one ;)
......
Findings
Article 1
What Women Like In A Man Are These 5 Traits
By Alex
September 25, 2008
This article basically talks about how men and women are different and how can men understand women better. The 5 traits that women want, according to this article, are confidence, honesty, integrity, good sense of humor, and an ease with sexuality.
http://www.selfgrowth.com/articles/What_Women_Like_In_A_Man_Are_These_5_Traits.html
Article 2
Life Plan for Love: What Men Want in a Woman
By Katherin Scott
January 17, 2009
This articles gives 13 traits of women that attracts men who are ready to settle down. The traits are: beauty, sexiness, respect, encouragement, fidelity, open and honest communication, strength and confidence, goodness, sense of humor, space, challenge, and love.
http://www.selfgrowth.com/articles/Life_Plan_for_Love_What_Men_Want_in_a_Woman.html
Article 3
Life Plan for Love: The Art of Flirting.
By Katherin Scott
January 2, 2009
Katherin talks about how the art of flirting is to make someone else feel attractive, in a tasteful, understated way. She mentions not to be too obvious in doing this. 10 elements for the art of flirting are provided in this article, eye contact, smile, touch, move your body, talk, laugh, be funny, compliment, be nice, and practice.
http://www.selfgrowth.com/articles/Life_Plan_for_Love_The_Art_of_Flirting.html
Article 4
How to Get Her to Like You- 8 Hot Tips to Attract Women
By Gisele Jones
February 26, 2009
This article provides 8 tips for men to get instant attraction from any woman. The 8 tips are: don’t show a lot of interest, show confidence, don’t be arrogant, listen, use eye contact, use humor to seduce her, look good, and be a good communicator.
http://ezinearticles.com/?How-to-Get-Her-to-Like-You----8-Hot-Tips-to-Attract-Women&id=2040557
Article 5
10 Personality Traits Men Find Attractive In Women
By Heather Lee
March 2, 2008
This article mentions 10 traits that men find irresistible in women. The 10 traits are: understanding, a good sense of humor, directness, confidence, dedication, flexibility, caring, warmth, intelligence, and honesty.
http://ezinearticles.com/?10-Personality-Traits-Men-Find-Attractive-In-Women&id=1020877
Article 6
......
This is one of my research. I did content analysis on "How attraction works."
Gosh it's soo interesting.
I'm glad some of the work are this exciting.
P/s: don't follow blindly from what you read here. Go to the websites if you are interested. Don't blame me for not clearly justifying the tips, a lot of isi tersirat inside one ;)
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