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Cakap sweet sweet on facebook.

2010-06-17T08:08:00.000-07:00

It has been some time. Blogging seems less popular. Or maybe it's just me totally stop browsing others' blogs.

But it's not like I blog because others do so. SOmetimes it feels good posting your thoughts or ideas up here. SAme goes with facebook I guess. Nick brought up to me a question that day when we were chit chatting. I told him how other couples are so sweet on facebook they post nice nice thing on their status. And Nick was saying, why arh people want to post their status on facebook? Why wanna tell everyone arh?

I cannot answer. Sigh. Sweet mah? WHy sweet arh I also dunno.

Then people like Dick ah will sure say, "sai meng arhh", "getting skin cancer dee lar".

Hmm..but it is something to think about. Why do we post those sweet sweet stuff on facebook arh. I never know. I thought it is just, yea sweet. But then you know, it's stupid also sometimes, if I post stuff like that and he never reply, then I sad. arhh.. why posting then?

Neh neh just some random thoughts.

To someone I miss a lot.

2009-10-20T05:59:00.000-07:00

A post specially for my dearest cousin, sister, and friend.

You know who you are, I hope.
Saw your msg in facebook today, and I realise how much I miss you.

Went back to Malacca for the Mid-autumn festival, and I couldn't find you.
Another two of us were enjoying their time, as usual.
But I know how much they miss you too.

I remember how we walked around Duyung holding our lanterns during Mid-autumn festival every year.
We did the same this year, but it's without you.

I remember how we celebrated each of the uncle and auntie's wedding together, and put on makeups and nice dresses and then laugh at each other, and praising each other's dress, but I couldn't imagine how my wedding would be without you.

I couldn't imagine how your wedding would be without me, too.
I hope I can be there for you.
I hope we can enjoy all these important moments in our lives, together, holding our hands.
And sad moments too.

I have so much to tell you now.
So much that I couldn't possibly finish in a day or two.
So much that it takes a life time to finish it, with you and just you.

I want you to know that no matter what your choice will be, I believe in you, that you will know when is the right time to do the right thing.
And I am always waiting for you, for our paths to cross again.

From a cousin, sister, and friend who loves you always.

Workout.

2009-10-13T05:31:00.001-07:00

I wanna lose weight....
I want I want I waaaaaaaaaaaaannnnnnnnnnnnntttt to be slimmerrr...
I know Im not that FAAT lar but you see, Mommy says when shes at my age, she never reached this size before one lor..

Started going gym edi lar anyway.
Asked help from a few friends also, like on how I can really lose weight.

Met Woody today, then he came gym with me.
He's working for Herbaline or Herbalife or something like that lar, something related to health ar fitness all those things also one lar.
Woody says it's all a game on how much your intake is and how much your body is using.

Jason, he's a certified personal trainer. Today he told me something I really dunno before lor. Sounds so stupid in front of him. lol =p

V: I'm going back now, hungry after gym. haven't eat anything. (I had a class after gym)
J: Oh you must eat within half an hour after gym.
V: Wat? Whatt?? Within you mean? I thought after gym cannot straight away eat one ler, thought will gain weight.
J: Nonsense. If never eat only will gain weight.

OK.
Now I know.

Good job these two weeks Vivian! Don't stop! You can do it!

Oh something else I wanna say, to Dickson.

See arh this Dickson always say arh,
I like PIG lar,
I FAT lar,
I very very FAT larr..

When I tell Jason saying that I'm fat,
people say "nonsense" lerr

Ah Sau also say I not fat ok?? =p

Buahahahaha.
Stop saying all those negative things to me!
Say something which can make me motivated can anot?!!
Bad Dickson!

hehe

GAD

2009-09-02T05:49:00.000-07:00

Generalized anxiety disorder.

“Normal” Worry:

Your worrying doesn’t get in the way of your daily activities and responsibilities.
You’re able to control your worrying.
Your worries, while unpleasant, don’t cause significant distress.
Your worries are limited to a specific, small number of realistic concerns.
Your bouts of worrying last for only a short time period.

Generalized Anxiety Disorder:

Your worrying significantly disrupts your job, activities, or social life.
Your worrying is uncontrollable.
Your worries are extremely upsetting and stressful.
You worry about all sorts of things, and tend to expect the worst.
You’ve been worrying almost every day for at least six months.

Im in the middle ler..
never noticed it before.until when so many ppl is telling me that how come i so ganjiong all the time one.
sighh..

Diagnosing myself as "mild" GAD.
"mild" not as in not serious you know..very serious edii..its going "moderate" then soon become "severe"
Im dying!!

ganjiong over small small thing all the time. then cannot sleep, or wake up in the middle of the night.then stay awake until the alarm rings.

Went to Counseling class today. There was a question about focusing on the past, or present, or future. Mr. James was saying ppl who keep thinking about the past will feel depressed, and those who focus too much on the future will be anxious all the time.

Guess where I am. Past, present, or future?
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sigh...so true...Im so depressed and anxious!

Call me Ms. Mia.

2009-08-14T06:03:00.000-07:00

EEeee!!!...back in action.Hopefully.

Sigh Grace was saying, "I miss you lar.."

Bridget was yelling, "Where have you been?"

Shu yi was telling me, "Got gathering lar.."

Huiwen: "Busy lar.."

Not one time but many many many times lor...

I know I know!!! Sorryyy larrr...

I miss you guys too..erghh exams until 21st..plss plss wait for me!!!

And this blog also..arhh forgotten my password even..

Lots of things happened, unhappy ones. And Ms. Mia feels like blogging again! Anyway..Im feeling better. Back to sitting in front of the computer again, browsing through blogs.

Long one. Worth the time reading =)

2009-04-28T06:32:00.000-07:00

OK. I don't usually read emails. but this was forwarded by CLARA CHUA SOKE LING, the big name there you know.. our peer counseling president wei. So I click it open and start reading.

Gosh. Then I was like. Hawwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwww.

I don't usually forward emails also. And so for this I decided to post it HERE!
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One day, when I was a freshman in high school, I saw a kid from my class was walking home from school.

His name was Kyle.

It looked like he was carrying all of his books. I thought to myself, 'Why would anyone bring home all his books on a Friday? He must really be a nerd.'

I had quite a weekend planned (parties and a football game with my friends tomorrow afternoon), so I shrugged my shoulders and went on.

As I was walking, I saw a bunch of kids running towards him. They ran at him, knocking all his books out of his arms and tripping him so he landed in the dirt.

His glasses went flying, and I saw them land in the grass about ten feet from him...He looked up and I saw this terrible sadness in his eyes.

My heart went out to him. So, I jogged over to him as he crawled around looking for his glasses, and I saw a tear in his eye.

As I handed him his glasses, I said, 'Those guys are jerks.' They really should get lives.

'He looked at me and said, 'Hey thanks!'

There was a big smile on his face. It was one of those smiles that showed real gratitude.

I helped him pick up his books, and asked him where he lived. As it turned out, he lived near me, so I asked him why I had never seen him before..

He said he had gone to private school before now. I would have never hung out with a private school kid before.

We talked all the way home, and I carried some of his books. He turned out to be a pretty cool kid.

I asked him if he wanted to play a little football with my friends. He said yes.

We hung out all the weekend and the more I got to know Kyle, the more I liked him, and my friends thought the same of him.

Monday morning came, and there was Kyle with the huge stack of books again. I stopped him and said, 'Boy, you are gonna really build some serious muscles with this pile of books everyday!' He just laughed and handed me half the books.

Over the next four years, Kyle and I became best friends...

When we were seniors we began to think about college. Kyle decided on Georgetown and I was going to Duke.

I knew that we would always be friends, that the miles would never be a problem.

He was going to be a doctor and I was going for business on a football scholarship..

Kyle was valedictorian of our class. I teased him all the time about being a nerd.

He had to prepare a speech for graduation. I was so glad it wasn't me having to get up there and speak.

Graduation day, I saw Kyle. He looked great.

He was one of those guys who really found himself during high school.

He filled out and actually looked good in glasses.

He had more dates than I had and all the girls loved him.

Boy, sometimes I was jealous!

Today was one of those days.

I could see that he was nervous about his speech.

So, I smacked him at the back and said, 'Hey, big guy, you'll be great!'

He looked at me with one of those looks (the really greatful one) and smiled. 'Thanks,' he said.

As he started his speech, he cleared his throat, and began.

'Graduation is a time to thank those who helped you make it through those tough years.

Your teachers,
your parents,
your siblings,
maybe a coach...
but mostly your friends....

I am here to tell all of you that being a friend to someone is the best gift you can give them.

I am going to tell you a story.'

I just looked at my friend with disbelief as he told the first day we met.

He had planned to kill himself over the weekend.

He talked of how he had cleaned out his locker so his Mom wouldn't have to do it later and was carrying his stuff home.

He looked hard at me and gave me a little smile.

'Thankfully, I was saved.

My friend saved me from doing the unspeakable..'

I saw his Mom and dad looking at me and smiling that same grateful smile.
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Have you heard 'Hawwwwwwwww...'?

One of my research report.

2009-03-19T21:36:00.000-07:00

What keeps me motivated is this.

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Findings
Article 1
What Women Like In A Man Are These 5 Traits
By Alex
September 25, 2008
This article basically talks about how men and women are different and how can men understand women better. The 5 traits that women want, according to this article, are confidence, honesty, integrity, good sense of humor, and an ease with sexuality.
http://www.selfgrowth.com/articles/What_Women_Like_In_A_Man_Are_These_5_Traits.html

Article 2
Life Plan for Love: What Men Want in a Woman
By Katherin Scott
January 17, 2009
This articles gives 13 traits of women that attracts men who are ready to settle down. The traits are: beauty, sexiness, respect, encouragement, fidelity, open and honest communication, strength and confidence, goodness, sense of humor, space, challenge, and love.
http://www.selfgrowth.com/articles/Life_Plan_for_Love_What_Men_Want_in_a_Woman.html

Article 3
Life Plan for Love: The Art of Flirting.
By Katherin Scott
January 2, 2009

Katherin talks about how the art of flirting is to make someone else feel attractive, in a tasteful, understated way. She mentions not to be too obvious in doing this. 10 elements for the art of flirting are provided in this article, eye contact, smile, touch, move your body, talk, laugh, be funny, compliment, be nice, and practice.
http://www.selfgrowth.com/articles/Life_Plan_for_Love_The_Art_of_Flirting.html

Article 4
How to Get Her to Like You- 8 Hot Tips to Attract Women
By Gisele Jones
February 26, 2009
This article provides 8 tips for men to get instant attraction from any woman. The 8 tips are: don’t show a lot of interest, show confidence, don’t be arrogant, listen, use eye contact, use humor to seduce her, look good, and be a good communicator.
http://ezinearticles.com/?How-to-Get-Her-to-Like-You----8-Hot-Tips-to-Attract-Women&id=2040557

Article 5
10 Personality Traits Men Find Attractive In Women
By Heather Lee
March 2, 2008
This article mentions 10 traits that men find irresistible in women. The 10 traits are: understanding, a good sense of humor, directness, confidence, dedication, flexibility, caring, warmth, intelligence, and honesty.
http://ezinearticles.com/?10-Personality-Traits-Men-Find-Attractive-In-Women&id=1020877

Article 6
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This is one of my research. I did content analysis on "How attraction works."

Gosh it's soo interesting.

I'm glad some of the work are this exciting.

P/s: don't follow blindly from what you read here. Go to the websites if you are interested. Don't blame me for not clearly justifying the tips, a lot of isi tersirat inside one ;)

Now I know what Grace mean when she talks about BUSY.

2009-03-19T21:21:00.000-07:00

3 research reports due this Saturday.

1 reading reflection due next Monday.

1 very-tough-test on next Monday.

1 I-heard-it's-very-tough-test on next Tuesday.

1 report on our Motivational workshop for IO class on the last week.

1 very-tough-lecturer's presentation on the end of this month, plus a report on the presentation.

1 not-so-tough-quiz by maybe next week? It's a "POP" quiz.

1 dunno 15 or 20 pages assignment about "questionnaires" due at the end of the semester. * the end of the semester is about 2 or 3 more weeks to go.

1 final projest, a research due on 6th Apr.

Phew.

I don't know if I missed out any.

I can't remember that much.

So, don't ask me out, don't mention the word KTV in front of me. Don't ever mention SHOPPING. I will go crazy.

I'm avoiding all the work.

I'm blogging now. =(

Gift.

2009-02-25T04:59:00.000-08:00

Gosh.
I so have to blog about this.

Everyone! CLICK ON THIS!

You'll regret if you don't.
Trust me.

Back. At least I hope so.

2009-02-25T04:09:00.000-08:00

Never blog for a LOOOOOONG time already.
And I find out why I never blog during this period.

I stop taking train for a while because it's not convenient AT ALL for me to take train and buses and cab, and I've been so so busy since this new semester started.

Then last week I took the train for a day because someone else is using my car. And, I realise taking train makes me think. Seriously.

You know, you'd be watching and observing what others do when they are waiting for the train, and you'll start thinking bout yourself, then your friends, then your family, then you'll start thinking bout life! So much to think of! And that's how huiwenologies came from =)

Btw, well I don't really want to mention bout this new blog yet because I haven't start doing anything with it. But I need something to end this post. hehe. so make sure you don't click on it.
vivianhuiwen-healthblog.blogspot.com

It is Mr. James' class, Health Psych. And we are required to blog about health, to have a behavior changing goal in conducting the blog.

Yea. So, remember not to click on it until I said so!
vivianhuiwen-healthblog.blogspot.com

Haawwwww...

2009-01-06T04:53:00.000-08:00

Seii lorrrhh..
My 2nd day in college today..went to some classes..
the following is my friend's conversation with me..

Sannu:eh vivian why you look different arh??like dunno why look a bit different..

Me:cuz i'm getting fatter mah..

Sannu:...

Suhen:Yeahh larh a bit chubby her face..yea..more chubby larh...

She agreed with me!!!

HAawwww....

Grace's Birthday.

2009-01-03T23:25:00.000-08:00

!!! After reading shuyi's post on Grace's birthday and yumcha outing, I decided to post something on my blog as well.

LOL I just wanted to upload this picture.

Obviously it's the stupid B's idea. So before grace came we went to the 'i need house'. B asked for the nipple clip vibrator. Funny I dunno what's that call. But they don't have those cute cute nice nice one. So we took this, a 'lovely' yummy panties!

Bridget insisted to take the disgusting beige skin colour guy's panties. Grace is not going to eat it dohh..so it's better to have this cute pink colour one for her to keep right?? strawberry flavour is definitely nicer!!

Bridget's stupid face.

Us.

Happy birthday Grace!You are ninteen!

Awwwww we are twenty..

Byebye popo.

2008-12-07T08:21:00.000-08:00

Dear popo,

It's your 'tao chat' today. It's been 7 days since you left us. I don't know what time you will be coming back to visit us. I don't even know if you are coming back today. I hope you did, for the last time, visit us and then continue your journey after life. I hope you will be in Russia visiting William also. He misses you a lot. All of us miss you so much. But please don't worry about us. Please rest in peace. We will take care of ourselves.

I just want you to kow how much we love you, popo. You were a great person. A great mother and popo and tai po for us.

Goodbye, popo.

Lots of love,

huiwen

7/12/08

Wishes.

2008-10-13T06:25:00.000-07:00

1. I wish I'm a mentally retarded person.
Uhm..or maybe being dumb or silly would be enough.

2. I wish I can be a vampire. Do they have a special name for female vampires? Vampirees? Hmm..sounds weird =S

3. I wish I can be invisible. No one can see me then. Good.

4. I wish I can't feel a thing. I don't get happy or sad. I don't love or hate.

5. I wish I'm not me. I don't want to be anyone. No name for me. Nothing.

6. I wish I can stop these ridiculous thoughts.

phew..moody days..I think a lot when I'm moody..I think a lot when I'm not moody too!!

Erggh SHIT..confused..

Making him and her listen.

2008-09-22T05:54:00.000-07:00

Making WOMEN listen.

1. Participate and INTERRUPT the conversations.

-women's brains were designed to do the talkings and to listen at the same time.

2. MIMIC her expressions.

-when she says

Aww..you know arh..that dress I bought yesterday is really nice lerr..

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-then you must say

Aww..seriously?!!It is really soo nice??

-when she says

blek..I ate a lot just now..

-then you must say

blek..you eat so much??

-next set..

she says "......"

-and he says "......"

3. Reveal personal informations.

-then she will feel close to you..this is very true..haha

-in other words, women are geh boh also larh..hehe XD

4. Use indirect sentences, avoid direct speeches and TALK MORE.

-we just want to TALK and thats all! If you get straight to the point then nothing else we can talk about edi!!right?right?

Next on..Making MEN listen.

Stay tuned.=)

Dreams.

2008-09-15T05:44:00.000-07:00

Me and Shue Ling will be having a double date on the beach, then we will be wearing hot bikinis, mine will be green one, then hers, i dunno larh.. then we will be chatting and giggling with the hot guys we are bringing.

Wahh wat a nice dream that would be..you know why im writing it out? Not because I wanna show you how crazy I am, but Mr James asks us to write down what we want to dream about, and do it repeatedly..then 1 day you will get to dream about what you want to.

Nice right? Come on you can do whatever you want in your dreams ler! Isn't that the nicest thing in the world?!

And why with Shue Ling? Thats another thing Mr James told us, some people get to connect their dreams!! That will be amazing man! So me and Shue Ling wanna try it out..haha

So..when I get to dream about that I'll tell you kie?

Btw, Eddie you don't come kacau arh i tell you..

You know what he said? He wants to come into our dream and destroy our double-date! How horrible!!

Time Relativity

2008-09-10T06:29:00.000-07:00

Something very philosophical.

Go check it out if you are interested.

Ok in this theory of Einstein, time does not exist. Time is created by us to measure our past,present and the future. But there is actually no true division between these three.

"Since there exists in this four dimensional structure [space-time] no longer any sections which represent "now" objectively, the concepts of happening and becoming are indeed not completely suspended, but yet complicated. It appears therefore more natural to think of physical reality as a four dimensional existence, instead of, as hitherto, the evolution of a three dimensional existence."- Einstein

I cannot really understand this lar..but from my understanding, and what I have read from some sources on the net, TIME CHANGES.

Have you ever feel like time is moving slower or sometimes a lot more faster than usual? Einstein believed that if we can travel at the speed of light (186,000 miles per second), time would appear slower to us.

The example Einstein gave.

A pair of pretend twins, Al and Bert, both of whom are 10 years old in their highly futuristic universe.

Al's parents decide to send him to summer camp in the Alpha-3 star system, which is 25 light-years away (a light-year is the distance light travels in a year). Bert doesn't want to go and stays home on Earth. So Al sets out on his own. Wanting him to get there as quickly as possible, his parents pay extra and send him at 99.99 percent the speed of light.

The trip to the star and back takes 50 years. What happens when Al returns? His twin brother is now 60 years old, but Al is only 10 and a half. How can this be? Al was away for 50 years but only aged by half a year. Has Al just discovered the fountain of youth?

Not at all. Al's trip into space lasted only a half year for him, but on Earth 50 years passed. Does this mean that Al can live forever? Nope. He may have aged by only half a year in the time it took 50 years to pass on Earth, but he also only lived half a year. And since time can slow down but never goes backwards, there's no way he could grow younger.

Very deep. Can't explain much cuz I have not yet understand the whole idea either, but it's an interesting idea.

http://www.pbs.org/wgbh/nova/einstein/hotsciencetwin/

I tell you..I'm gonna marry the one who can understand this. Hahahaha..cuz u know..smart guys are attractive *winks*

But come on..Albert Einstein took years to figure it out, and he's a genius.

Well if you are a girl..hmm..I'll find you a husband..hahaha

Ten Commandments of Marriage

2008-09-05T07:57:00.000-07:00

Mr. James was showing us this in class. Tell me which one you like the most.

Commandment 1. Marriages are made in heaven. But so again, are thunder and lightning.

Commandment 2. If you want your wife to listen and pay strict attention to every word you say, talk in your sleep.

Commandment 3. Marriage is grand -- and divorce is at least 100 grand!

Commandment 4. Married life is very frustrating. In the first year of marriage, the man speaks and the woman listens. In the second year, the woman speaks and the man listens. In the third year, they both speak and the neighbours listen.

Commandment 5. When a man opens the door of his car for his wife, you can be sure of one thing: Either the car is new or the wife is.

Commandment 6. Marriage is when a man and woman become as one; The trouble starts when they try to decide which one.

Commandment 7. Before marriage, a man will lie awake all night thinking about something you say. After marriage, he will fall asleep before you finish.

Commandment 8. Every man wants a wife who is beautiful, understanding, economical, and a good cook. But the law allows only one wife.

Commandment 9. Marriage and love are purely matter of chemistry. That is why wife treats husband like toxic waste.

Commandment 10. A man is incomplete until he is married. After that, he is finished..

**Ohh the 5th one I like the most..very true..

F_CKER.

2008-08-24T07:21:00.000-07:00

A student in mom's kindergarten got canned that day because someone heard him saying the F word.

He is in standard 1 and has never really been a tough kid before. So I was wondering..hmm..how come? Where did he learn that from? Normally kids learn all these things from their parents, but his parents cannot be saying those things what..his parents are quite nice wan..

So the day after that, our teacher asked him about that word he said. This boy actually cannot produce the S sound..and his S will come out as K.
And guess what this innocent boy answered.
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The English version>>>
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I said faster mahh...
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Awwwww...such a cute incident...and pity him larh..

The King and the Queen!

2008-08-03T08:41:00.000-07:00

I was eating the King and the Queen!!
of the fruits..hahaha

I just LOVE durians. OMG the smell is still there..I can smell it everywhere!! Now I'm only hoping that my sensory adaptation system is not working well, then I can keep the smell fresh longer!!

Alamak forgot to take some pics of the durians and rambutans..Don't really like rambutans actually..I'm lazy to open this fruit and its sticky!! Ewww..

Oh yea..and now I'm sick..because of the durians..I ate too much..
And I heard it's fat!! oh goshh must go gym edi then..hahaha

Kinda sleepy now..nitez everyone!

Create your own handphone theme!

2008-07-28T05:58:00.000-07:00

http://www.moxiu.com/

Awww.. I don't feel like sharing it..
but what's the fun keeping it to myself?!

In this website you can find really nice themes for your handphone.. and the best thing is, you can personalize it! You can make yourself one, with all your camwhore pics or whatever..hahaha it's really fun..and everything is FREE!

Go go go..faster!!

BTW, it's all in chinese.

Changes.

2008-07-23T05:16:00.000-07:00

Changes.

So it happened.

Hmmm~~

Don't worry about me. Give me sometime.
And I will move on.

**Another huiwenology.

2008-06-27T23:25:00.000-07:00

Something Keat Hong said yesterday makes me think. There goes another huiwenology.

**huiwenology: A golden hill is a heart shape itself when you turn it upside down.

money = love *$_$* *blink*

Did you see LOVE shape??

Hohohohoh...

Hahaha its just another huiwenology, doesn't mean that I'm like that ok?!

I'm not!!

Friends.

2008-06-27T08:22:00.000-07:00

I saw Michelle today.

I saw Grace today.

I saw Shu Yi and Wai Foong today.

I saw Yew Chuan, Han Xian, Kok Jet, Wei Zhe, Sheow Pin, Keat Hong, Yit Tze, Kay Hong, Zheng Wei, Chan Yan, Wen Chuan, and Yin Yien today.

I wanna list down your names one by one. Don't want to miss out any of you.

It has been almost 2 years since we left CHS. I thought I will be the fastest person to get used to my new environment, or at least the easiest one, but I'm wrong.

I haven't get used to it until now.

How can I live without Michelle?

How can I live without Grace?

How can I live without s5?

I hate changes in life. And life keep changing. I find it so hard to open up to new people now. New room, for new people, this is what I put in my msn captions last time. I wanna always remind myself of that.

But it's never easy.

Now I have close friends in UCSI.

Vivienne, Siew Fong, (dunno where I should put this, Im putting it here because its beside Boon Lay*blink* *Jia huan*) , Boon Lay, Dickson, and Wen Min.

But when life changes again, you expect me to live without them? Again?

How can I?

Sheow Pin's cake slipped to the table when she's holding it to take picture!! I want to thank the waiter from Chili's for still taking the photo when everyone's face is so shock like this!

Happy birthday Sheow Pin. Happy birthday Su Yi! I din forget bout you!

Chinese vs. Malaysian

2008-06-23T05:18:00.000-07:00

Received a funny email last Saturday.

Its in chinese. And sorry lar this is hard to translate.

Chinese vs. Malaysian

中国人：今晚你有空吗？我没空！
马来西亚华人：今晚你得不得空？我不得空！

中国人：饼干受潮了…。
马来西亚华人：饼干'漏风'了…。

中国人：从上海去苏州要多少个小时？
马来西亚华人：从上海去苏州要几粒钟？

中国人：难道他不可以来吗？
马来西亚华人：你不给他不来啊？

中国人：周杰伦不喜欢穿内裤。
马来西亚华人：周杰伦不喜欢穿底裤。

中国人：我一向都是这样的
马来西亚人：我一路来都是这样的啦

中国人：我的手机掉进沟渠了。
马来西亚华人：我的手机掉进龙沟了。

中国人：这样你不是很不值得吗？
马来西亚华人：这样你'马'很不 '歹'？

中国人：你真是聪明！
马来西亚华人：你真是pan nai！(源自马来语pandai，聪明的意思)

中国人：你安静！
马来西亚华人：你diam diam！(源自马来语diam，安静的意思)

中国人：我要去银行取款。
马来西亚华人：我要去银行'按钱'。

中国人：为什么？
马来西亚华人：做么？

中国人：你很强~
马来西亚华人：你很够力~

中国人：明天也叫他一起去吧！
马来西亚华人：明天叫'埋'他一起去！

中国人：我很郁闷~~~
马来西亚华人：我很'显'（sien）啊~~~~（'显'比郁闷的境界更高）

中国人：你再说我就打你！
马来西亚华人：你再说我就hood你！（有点粗俗的）

中国人：你在说什么？
马来西亚华人：你在说sommok？

中国人：你不要令我丢脸~
马来西亚华人：你不要'下水'我~

中国人：真被你气到…。
马来西亚华人：被你炸到…。

中国人：你别乱来~
马来西亚华人：你表乱乱来~

中国人：你很无聊
马来西亚华人：你很废

中国人：XX你
马来西亚华人：Kanasai（意思是像大便一样，骂人的话）

中国人：迫切
马来西亚华人：bek chek

中国人：我们一起吃这碗面~
马来西亚华人：我们'公司'吃这碗面~（源自马来语的kongsi，就是一起分享的意思）

中国人：我们结婚吧！
马来西亚华人：我们结'分'吧！（'婚'字受粤语影响，所以音不标准）

中国人：今天的天气很热~
马来西亚华人：今天的天气热到。。。。。。。。。。。。。。~~~~~~~（'到'字要拉长，然后没有下文了）

中国人：哇!
马来西亚华人：哇捞weh!!!!

中国人：我受不了他！
马来西亚华人：我behtahan他！

**huiwenology

2008-06-16T06:40:00.000-07:00

**huiwenology: You don't measure love with beauty, measure beauty with love.

If you don't understand this, you will never do.

Love Story

2008-06-06T23:13:00.000-07:00

Probably the sweetest couple i have ever seen.

I havent really seen both of them together, and I don't really know their love story. But they are just soo sweeet~ together. I see the magic words in both of them! HAPPILY EVER AFTER!!

Joey is always pretty. And her bf is cute too! hehez...

http://niclovejo.multiply.com/

Visit their website and you will feel the same!

Wish both of you happy always!!

Glam-O-Liciouz

2008-05-22T05:07:00.000-07:00

http://glam-o-liciouz.blogspot.com/

My blogshop. Yes, it's MINE.

Jia Huan, Siew Fong, Wen Min and Me.

OURS lar.

Yes, you can see me posing here and there. Make sure you don't laugh lar k? And please please don't comment on how I look like!!

Even if you really cannot tahan. Don't ever let me hear that.

Faster come and support us.

I mean. Go and support us!

Fast! Fast! Fast!

Why are you still here?!!

Go there larr>>>>http://glam-o-liciouz.blogspot.com/

The way I eat.

2008-05-13T05:37:00.000-07:00

OK. I just wanna list down how much I can eat in a day.

Breakfast, Opps...I shoudn't put breakfast, lunch, and dinner.

I don't eat that way.

Usually, this is how I eat.

Morning.

White milk tea + super fat kaya butter bread at old town.

After 1 class, maybe an egg tart or curry puff from the ground floor auntie's stall.

>>in between, sweets, keropoks, anything that I can put into my mouth.

Afternoon.

Lunch time. One some? Free n easy? Samosa? Something which can make me feel full. I mean, some thingS.

>>in between, same thing here. Anyting, or I shall say everything.

Night.

After dinner, I will have the urge to yum cha again. Maybe with some biscuits, the ping pong brand one, or the marie biscuits. Back home, (I take my dinner at mom's kindergarten) while I am watching wah lai toi tv show at 9.30, I feel like eating maggie mee!!

It's a miracle I can still keep it at 55. I mean my weight. I know Im no more slim. But still, the way I eat, I could have become obes mann.

If I'm that cute and chubby, I don't mind!!

OK. Now I feel like eating again.

Little miss dot

2008-05-02T05:25:00.000-07:00

I love this blog!! Got some nice nice clothes there...go check it out and do your shopping now! >>>http://lilmissdot.blogspot.com/

Discovered it accidentally..hahaha

I browse through some other malaysian blogs selling things. But well, not my style..all not nice larr..lots of pasar malam style

Not everything is nice in this blog either..but a lot more better than the others I saw.

and I will continue searching for other better ones!!

* huiwenology: When guys can stop staring at leng luis (pretty girls), thats when girls can stop shopping!

person x situation interactionism

2008-04-18T07:46:00.000-07:00

Just be yourself!

Easier said than done.

How?? I don't even remember how myself is.

In psychology class I learn about situationism. I'm not sure if I got it right. Well, in this theory people tend to behave differently in different situation. When you are with different people, you'll have different behaviors.

Of course I believe we will still have our own personality. Our true self.

But,

do you still remember it?

I don't!!

My Dream Guy

2008-04-13T08:58:00.000-07:00

He's back! My dream guy.You cannot imagine how attractive he is to me! I just can't get my eyes away from him.

Even his pose of mouthing his thumb makes my heart pumping so fast!!

Smart guys are just too attractive for me.

I need help.

2008-03-27T06:07:00.000-07:00

Have been a bit too emotional lately.

I'm getting sick.

Mentally sick.

Beasts always get the beauties.

2008-03-04T05:49:00.000-08:00

Why beasts always get the beauties?

Simple.

Muka tembok you know anot?

Thick face.

I'm not trying to assault anyone here, but you know what I mean.

Don't you notice leng cais will never approach girls? They wait for the girls to approach them. Excuse me this is Malaysia ok? Malaysian girls are still SHY!!

So, all the leng cais out there, stop complaining when beasts get the beauties.You know what to do!!

Election 2008

2008-03-02T04:10:00.000-08:00

Election? What do you think?

It's a waste of resources.

First, trees. I have no idea how many trees they have cut down for the use of election.

Second, plastics! My moral teacher says plastic cannot be recycle ler!

Third, human resources. Everyone in the parties are busy with the election, from planning campaigns to hanging up the Datuks' faces.

See?

Btw, I'm politically neutral.

I'm slim and fit.

2008-02-27T04:36:00.000-08:00

I'm getting fatter.

And FaTtEr.

And FATTER.

My stupid heng dais keep making fun of my weight. And I swear 1 day I'm gonna whack u guys.

My lecturers, Mr. James and Ms. Norul say our brain is powerful. If we keep telling ourselves the same thing, repeating it over and over again in our mind, believe it or not, you will be able to do it.

I'm slim and fit.

I'm slim and fit.

I'm slim and fit.

I'm slim and fit.

I'm slim and fit.

Celebrity Morph by MyHeritage

2008-02-24T06:33:00.001-08:00

How? How? hehehehe...i know the tone is very different ok..but not bad rite?? rite?? hehehe..paiseh la..let me syok sendiri la..

MyHeritage: Celebrity Morph - Free genealogy software - Family history

It Does Not Pay to Be Honest All the Time

2008-01-02T04:03:00.000-08:00

Sad for him. I always like him, always heard his name. And he really did a lot for us, don't he?

'Which one of you has never done that?' this is what the Father of our country had said in a meeting, back to the year of 1950 something. And guess what, only one brave man had put up his hand, couragely, honestly, telling everyone that he's a good husband, a good man, thats Mr. Tan, if anyone knows, not from the government party.

As for him, he has honestly admit it, and the result comes out with, 'it does not pay to be honest all the time'.

Good Politicians

2007-12-30T07:39:00.000-08:00

Mom always go for politics dinner. I always follow. And I did learn something from it.

Well I always heard people criticizing our country. A lot of us did, don't we? And I have always think that those who excel in life(what i mean are those..rich people maybe?), will always think that our country isn't a good one, thay usually migrate to other country thinking that this isn't a good country for us anymore. They don't love this country.

But what I have seen in all these politics dinner, it has come to my mind that good politicians really did love the country. And I do not think that all of them have such good acting that they can make me, the future psychologist ^.^, believe that they really did love the country.

I really thought that they become politicians for the sake of the powers, or it is they themselves that like to control and manage people. But what I have seen in a few of my favourite politicians, yes, they love the country, they love the people.

I am here asking everyone that wish to be a politician in the future, LOVE YOUR COUNTRY TO BECOME A GOOD ONE.

Dong Zhi

2007-12-30T05:45:00.000-08:00

This is what mother make......V
This is what i make.........^
'yuan bao' for WEALTH......
heart shape for LOVE......^-^
As for this, I have no idea why I'm making this...
I ate the man!!

Loser, me.

2007-11-21T05:24:00.000-08:00

This is a world for the winners.

I'm a lousy one. A loser.

The world doesn't belong to me.

I will pray for you, dear granduncle.

2007-10-29T07:37:00.000-07:00

Sometimes we just don't know when's the last time we will be seeing them.

Appreciate every chance you get to see them. Everyone you know, including those you don't really know, just watch their faces longer, and remember every details on their faces.

You probably won't feel anything when you are still seeing them, and they are just someone not really close to you. But imagine that you can never see that person again.

Never.

It's a strong word.

Regrets

2007-10-23T04:56:00.000-07:00

Regrets.Lots of regrets.

It's exactly what I want!! It's what I have been dreaming for and wish to be!! And I've just blew the chance away.

I'm working on something today and someone has offer me something I really interested in.

But I told him. Sorry, I just can't do that.

Later I discover something from the November CLEO magazine I bought today.

'Sagittarius nov 23 to dec21
work hard You'll be ready for an unexpected opportunities and taking a leap of faith in yourself could bring success and money.'

Regrets. Lots of regrets.

50 Ways to Enjoy Your Independent Life

2007-10-21T05:57:00.000-07:00

I found something interesting from an old magazine at a hair salon that day.

The magazine was CLEO if I'm not mistaken. August CLEO.

"50 Ways to Enjoy Your Independent Life"

I want to share with everyone!! It's really exciting!!

1.Shop!a great way to remind yourself being independent
2.Get a credit card
3.Buy a new handbag
4.Learn to driveIf you can't drive, you can't go anywhere!
5.Go sunbathing in bikiniso long as you remember SPF
6.Talk to strangers
7.Spend your money, win your prizes
8.Get a manicure
9.Write yourself a letter or an email for yourself on the thirtieth birthday, you'll be surprise
10.Get spiritual
11.Sleep in until noon
12.Bury all your hatches
13.Plant a tree
14.Plant it forward
15.Go skinny dipping
16.Visit a nice spa
17.Start a blog
18.Date a musician
19.Open a trust fund account
20.Get sloshed
21.Learn a new language
22.Fast but don't starve
23.Eat a cake
24.Learn to cook
25.Have sexWell I'm not really ready for this one. Malaysian girls are still not that open rite? I'm not even 18 yet!! Don't laugh if you think I'm lame or what, at least I don't think so.
26.Get a makeover
27.Call your ex(es)
28.Give away your old school books
29.Multi-date Mom is not around..who cares?>.<
30.Get your own place a)not your parents' house b) you are paying for yourself
31.Go to a party
32.Get some bling
33.Get some bling down south
34.Be an SPG for one night' sarong party girl, for only one night ' it says..well I don't really know what it means..
35.Throw a party
36.Buy your parents a pressie
37.Start a business
38.Spend a full day with a cameraI like this one
39.Give away your old clothesBuy new ones!!
40.Stay up all night on a weekday
41.Bleach your hair
42.Get some (real) lingerie a naughty G- string maybe?
43.Pierce your_____ fill in the blank yourself
44.Go on a holiday
45.Start a diary Don't let your teens pass you by without taking note down!!Start one today!!
46.Go for a movie marathon Exciting!
47.Paint a self-portrait doesn't needa be a very nice one
48.Visit IKEA
49.Have a baby
50.Get married lastly..

Stress Managing Talk

2007-10-21T02:54:00.000-07:00

Today I went to a talk about stress managing by 梁惠美医师(Ms. Liang Huey Mei, a well-known clinical psychologist in Malaysia).

I have always been interested with psychology, and I'm currently studying psychology now.

I know Ms. Liang Huey Mei(I don't really know how to spell her name) through her first book (Psychologist Notebook) which has been given by Shuyi as my birthday gift in year 2005.

Today i bought her second book (Psychologist Q&A).

Those 2 books are really nice to be read. I like the cases written inside the books.They make you curious. Why are some people like that? How do we act when we are facing difficulties?

She teaches us how to manage stress today. We can do sports, yoga, go for Karaoke, do aroma therapy at home and a lot more. But the most important thing is to find out what causes your stress, and try to solve the problems, by this she says, you won't have anymore negative stress.

We even did some simple yoga in the class.

The conclusion I get today, is to manage your lifestyle, your time and your money (which are the most important issues in causing stress), even before it cause your worries. The more problems you leave for the neverending-tomorrow, the more stress you will get.

Yeah, good conclusion. Sayings are always easier than action, isn't it? Thats why I always fail. >.<

Sticky Friends

2007-10-20T07:14:00.001-07:00

I really enjoy meeting new friends.

But well I really don't like friends who keep sticking to you.

I mean, it doesn't matter if you both know that you are best friends of each other, and it make sense if you keep sticking together.

But for some people,they just want to be with you whenever they see you.
They wanna sit beside you in the class, in the bus, and everywhere! Ok doesn't matter, but stop talking and asking tonnes of questions non-stop beside me!!!

This kind of friends really scare me off.

Especially guys.

I'm so sorry if I have hurt anyone because of running away from the friendship. Well maybe it's my problem. I just need some privacy more than others do.More space for myself.

I'm just a typical sagittarius right? Need LOTS of freedoms...

Please forgive me, friends.

1 Litre of Tears

2007-10-20T06:54:00.000-07:00

Last 2 months when i was quite free and there weren't any works or assignments to be done, Michelle has been keep asking me to watch a Japanese series drama, '1 litre of tears'.

Well, the title doesn't really sounds good.

But i still give it a try even though im not a Japanese or Korean drama fans.

This is the result of watching '1 Litre of Tears'.

My father scolded me.

"Do you think that tissues are cheap now??!"

Give it a try.

You won't regret.